Has a pending divorce thrown your life plan out the window?

| Apr 1, 2020 | Firm News

You may have been one of the many people in Georgia and across the country who had a plan for your life. You may have decided where you would go to college, your major, when you would get married, when you would have kids and when numerous other details relating to your life would occur. Of course, you likely learned over the years that life does not always go according to plan.

Though you may have achieved some of your life milestones in accordance with your plan, you may not have anticipated going through a divorce. Unfortunately, that is the situation you now face. Your life may feel thrown upside down, and you may wonder what you can do.

Making it through divorce

While focusing on the legal aspects of your divorce case is certainly advisable, it is also important to focus on your well-being during this time. Ending a marriage can cause a substantial amount of upheaval in your life, and you may find yourself feeling out of sorts. Because you want to make logical and wise decisions during your case, you will want to consider the following tips for coping with divorce:

  • Have support: While you should certainly have legal support throughout your case, you will likely also benefit from friends, family or even a therapist who could provide you with emotional support during such a change.
  • Relieve stress: Stress can easily overwhelm you when going through a divorce, so finding stress-relieving activities that you enjoy could help you feel more in control.
  • Stay active: You may find yourself wanting to remain stagnant when things feel too much out of control, but you can help relieve stress by staying active.
  • Take things slow: You may feel that a lot is happening at once and that your life plan is going out the window. This can be disconcerting, but remember that you can take matters slowly, which can help when you have to make important decisions.

If you had a plan for your life, you likely already have organizational skills. Though this event may throw a wrench in your plans, you could certainly find a way to work through your divorce case and work toward outcomes that you find favorable for your future. You may find it helpful to discuss your particular concerns and wishes with a knowledgeable family law attorney.