You may have just recently divorced from your spouse. After the initial shock and many questions regarding the entire ordeal, there are children whose feelings should also be considered. It took time to go through the divorce process and now you have finally made it to the other side. Your family needs you more than ever to put them first and help them make the transition as smooth as possible. It is also a good idea for you and your former spouse to respect each other. You should show your children that it is all right for them to love both you and your former spouse.